All About Marriage
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Episode 54
Oh Sunok!
What are you doing here?
That's what I want to ask you.
Did Taeho tell you?
Let's go and eat a hot bowl of rice soup.
I already bought my train ticket.
Did you come out like this? It's cold.
Why didn't you wear a jacket?
What have you been doing?
Why didn't you have lunch?
Why did you come out without a jacket? Goodness.
You can't even dress yourself without me.
What if you catch a cold?
Don't show off about being healthy at your age. You could become ill.
Can you stop nagging me?
Hurry up and eat.
Why did you come all the way here?
Let's eat and go see your mother.
She's not home. The boiler's broken, so the house is freezing.
I sent her to Hyeonsik's house.
Why is the boiler faulty?
I know...
She must've left it off to save gas and it froze over.
You've missed out on your chance to be a good son-in-law.
Should I ask mom to come back?
Why didn't you tell me you're ill?
Did you hear about that?
Why did you tell Taeho and not me?
I knew you were being strange, asking me to go on a trip.
Now you leave home and act all dramatic.
Eat it. It's getting cold.
I'm not in the mood to buy new clothes right now.
Just do as I say.
Which color is better?
I said it's all right.
I think this color's good. You look younger.
I can't stop you, can I?
I was going to buy you a new winter coat anyway.
Your old one's too worn. Let's buy it while we're here.
Come on.
Geez...
Try it on and see if it fits.
You're so stubborn.
It even comes with a hat.
Who chose it? It's so nice.
You look at least 20 years younger.
Coming here reminds me of the old days.
Do you remember the first time you came over to my house?
You stood under that tree and held my hands.
You said my hands were the prettiest hands you had ever seen.
When did I say that?
You didn't? Was it another man then?
Are you mad at me?
Are you angry that you weren't the first to know?
I'm not angry.
I'm okay now. I've gotten over it.
I was distraught at first, but at least it's not serious.
There was a boy called Eunsik who lived near me as a child.
He's 6 years younger than me, but he passed away last year.
My friend Myeongja has cancer too.
She has terminal cancer.
She had a huge operation, but she might not make it.
I'm glad that it's not worse.
I'm thankful that I found out in advance.
And you rushed here to see me.
I'm such a lucky woman.
I'm really thankful. There are so many things I'm grateful about.
I'm relieved that it's not the kids or you who are ill.
It's not like I'm going to have any more babies.
I'm grateful that I don't have a different type of cancer.
Slow down.
Jongdae...
You speak as though you're going to die any minute.
Cancer is nothing these days.
Stop acting sorry for yourself and have surgery right away.
Don't use Yeonho as an excuse.
Let's go to the hospital.
Don't make excuses because you're scared.
You'll be a burden on me if it gets worse later on.
It's time to catch the train.
Let's go.
Mom!
Dad... Why didn't you tell me you went? I was worried.
Dad!
What are you doing?
I have to cook.
You go and rest. I'll do it.
You can't cook.
I can too.
Mom, go inside. You're a patient.
I'm not a patient. Go inside. I'm going to set the rice.
Then I'll go and rest.
No, go inside. I'll do it.
What's the matter with you?
Come on mom. Go and rest.
Go inside.
The rice will swell.
Go inside and rest.
What's wrong with you?
I'll get your blankets.
Dad, where are you going?
To play chess.
At this hour?
Dad!
Dad.
You eat with mom. I'm eating out.
Dad! Dad!
Your dad's being like that because he's upset.
Why does he act like that because he's upset?
You're the one who should be upset.
Can't he comfort you and take care of you?
Why does he have to go out now?
He came to get me.
That's a big step for your dad.
You serve him and match his mood.
That's why he's like that.
Other fathers aren't like that. They take care of their wives.
Aren't you ashamed to say that?
Mom...
Don't be offended. It's just a joke.
It's okay. Don't worry about me.
Take care of yourself.
Study hard while you're resting, so you can be a better teacher.
Take care of your siblings.
I trust you, Taeho.
I'm home.
Hi.
What are you doing out here?
Can't you come home early?
What's wrong?
Come and help with the housework.
When's your engagement party?
What?
Your engagement. You said it's this month. When is it?
Oh that... Don't worry about it.
You're not going to postpone the date, right?
I'll take care of it.
What's gotten into you?
You'll take care of it?
Because of you, mom...
Stop it. Don't take it out on Yeonho.
Yeonho's sensitive lately.
She'll just get angry at you.
Mom...
Taeho, go upstairs and rest.
Geez... What did I do?
Go upstairs.
How annoying...
What's with him?
Mom, where did you go?
To your grandma's.
You went there and wrote that you're going on a trip?
You left a note and left home.
I thought that you were starting to live a real life at last.
What do you mean?
What do I always tell you?
You should take trips.
Okay, I will.
Why is Taeho so mad anyway? What has he done right?
I love you, except the way you speak.
What did I say?
You always attack people and provoke arguments.
I do not.
It's the same with his mother.
Do you talk like that to her and say whatever you feel like?
Mom...
I know you're not the type to be disrespectful.
But be considerate and try to be friendlier to her.
Everyone's hearts melt.
If you're sincere, then she will be the same to you.
That's all there is in life.
Open up your chest.
Take a deep breath.
Turn your head, right, then left.
Close your eyes. Pray to yourself.
Picture the prettiest baby that you can imagine.
The prettiest baby that you can think of.
Pray for a baby like that.
The prettiest and smartest baby who listens to her mom.
And tall too.
Mom. How can a baby be tall?
I mean later on.
Mom, I'm not praying for that.
It's fine with me if our baby isn't so pretty or smart.
That's why your life is like this.
What's wrong with my life?
That's why you ended up with a husband like yours.
My husband's the best!
Baby, be just like your dad.
Please be like your dad.
What are you two doing?
Jongnam!
Auntie.
I knocked, but no one answered.
I let myself in.
Are you exercising?
Where have you been?
Why do you want to know?
I came for some things I left behind.
Auntie, did you go somewhere?
Didn't you know that I had left home?
Did you leave home?
Inseon, see? This is how much presence I have in my family.
No one knows if I left home or if I've eaten.
No one cares if I'm dead or alive.
Wait...
Jongnam...
Jongnam.
I've been a burden on your family.
I'm sorry.
Where have you been?
I was so worried.
Thanks. You're a good friend.
Inpyo was really worried about you.
Tell him thanks for me. I'm going.
Are you going already?
Have a cup of tea.
Meet Inpyo when he gets here.
Jongnam?
How have you been?
Where did you go?
I didn't go anywhere.
I just took a trip.
Do you know how worried I was?
Let's have a cup of tea.
I'm busy. I have to go.
Don't be like that.
I said I'm busy!
Sorry I clung to you like a leech.
I'm not going to get hung up over that money anymore.
It's up to you whether you pay me back or not.
If you have the money, pay me or I'll just think that I lost it.
Live a good life.
I'm moving far away.
You won't see me often.
Jongnam.
I'm going then.
Jongnam!
Is that you, Jeongim?
Sorry, dad. I have a sudden schedule.
Of all the days... I'll be home as soon as I finish.
It's okay. I know you're busy, so I prepared everything.
Take your time getting here.
Don't come if you're too busy.
Your mom will understand.
Don't worry. I've done everything.
Okay.
I'll be there as soon as I finish.
Let's go.
Pocket money for father and mother
Mom's memorial service
If you're sincere, then she will be the same to you.
That's all there is in life.
Hello?
Mother, have you had dinner?
Who is this?
It's me, Kim Yeonho.
Mother, can I go over now to have dinner?
Is that okay, mother?
Really? Then come.
Thank you. I'll see you soon.
She really has no shame.
Does she want me now?
I don't believe this.
Yes, Gyeonghun.
Yeonho, want to have dinner?
I'll go over to your school.
No, I have an appointment.
Really?
Yes. Let's have dinner tomorrow.
Who are you meeting?
That's a secret.
Don't try to know everything.
Okay. Enjoy your date then.
Okay. Drive safely.
Mother, were you very upset because of me?
I'd be lying if I said that I wasn't upset.
Please don't be upset anymore.
I've reflected on my errors.
I'm very straightforward. I often get misunderstood at school.
If I want to say something, I say it without thinking.
My parents always scold me.
I'm glad you know it.
Mother, please don't stay mad.
I want to get along well with you.
I really want you to like me.
How can you behave that way then?
I'm sorry.
You're going to continue to be stubborn, aren't you?
That's right.
I grew up poor, mother.
My father was an ordinary public officer.
My parents had to split his mediocre salary to raise the 3 of us.
I was always jealous of rich kids.
It was my dream to be rich when I grew up.
So?
I used to look at status or money when choosing a marriage partner.
When I first met Gyeonghun, he was poor and a single father.
He had nothing.
To tell the truth, he was the worst marriage partner ever.
But... But I chose him.
The worst man.
What are you trying to say?
Why is Gyeonghun the worst?
Mother, I liked Gyeonghun because he was independent.
He kept making me feel ashamed of myself.
I didn't like him because he's rich.
I liked him for his confidence.
What do you want to tell me?
Mother, please let us marry the way we want to.
That will make us both happy.
You're really racking your brains to talk me into it.
Mother...
Why do you think he was confident?
Because he's from a rich family.
I'm sure you knew that from the beginning.
Don't use strange logic to try to convince me.
Say what you like to prove yourself, but none of that matters.
What matters is that Gyeonghun is returned to his rightful position.
I've already made a lot of compromises.
You should be thankful to have met a man of his status.
You say he's a single father, but what's wrong with that?
You said so yourself. You grew up poor.
Gyeonghun could meet a much better woman than you.
Do you know why I accepted you?
Because I thought that you wouldn't split us up.
I thought you would be educated because you're a teacher.
But I can see that you have not been taught well at all.
Mother...
You're trying to win over me.
You're out to fight me.
How dare you try to lecture me?
Mother, that's not it.
Do you want me to tell you why you're acting this way?
Because you feel inferior.
I'll make it simple for you.
Your pride has been hurt because you're poor.
Take a good look at yourself.
Mom!
Mom, stop it.
Yeonho!
Go inside. I'll call you later.
No. We have to talk.
Later.
Yeonho, I'm sorry.
I'll apologize for her.
No, Gyeonghun. You don't need to.
I'm sorry.
Gyeonghun, I need some time to think.
I'm so confused now.
Is it really me feeling inferior like your mother said?
I'm confused now.
I was shaken up when I found out that your family is rich.
Your mother was so elegant.
I liked that.
That's me. Can I really stand honest and proud now?
Can I really live a humble life?
I really do have an inferiority complex.
I'm so superficial. I hate losing.
I hate that you're rich and I hate it when you're poor.
I'm so full of contradictions.
Yeonho...
I need some time to think.
Let's not call each other for a while.
I'm sorry. Bye.
What? Auntie, what do you mean?
Mom is ill?
Didn't you know about it?
Goodness. How can you be her son and not know anything?
All right, auntie...
Okay. I'm going over now.
Why didn't you tell me?
I had no idea and I caused such a ruckus. I'm so sorry.
I'm not dying. It's not serious.
It's cancer! Cancer!
I'm so upset with you.
Why didn't you tell me that you're having a hard time?
I know we're in-laws, but I'm like a little sister to you.
Why didn't you tell me?
Where are you going?
Mom! Mom!
Mom... Mom, it's all my fault.
It's because I troubled you.
What are you talking about?
I'm okay. Stop it! All of you!
I'll make dinner. Stay seated.
No, I'm fine.
I'll be fine once I have surgery.
Sit down and rest.
I'm home.
Taeho!
It's all your fault!
Gangho!
You made mom get ill!
Stop that! Gangho! Stop!
Mom, I'm sorry. I really am.
It's okay. I'm sorry to make you worry, my son.
Don't cry.
After I have surgery, I will be okay.
It's nothing serious. Everyone be quiet. Stay still.
Can I come inside?
Yes. Sit down.
Don't feel upset. Gangho was just troubled too.
He's not wrong.
Don't say that.
If that was the reason, everyone in this world would be ill.
If your aunt knows, then everyone else will end up finding out.
She's so loud. I can't say I'm ill even if I want to.
Where have you been?
Did you eat?
Yes.
Okay. Rest then.
I'm sorry, mom.
What? Why?
If Jeongim was around, she would've given you strength.
Jeongim was more understanding of you than I ever was.
Did you tell Jeongim?
No.
Good. Don't make her worry.
You don't call each other anymore?
No. That's best for both of us.
I thought about the reason why I liked Jeongim.
I think it was because she reminded me of you.
She's a little strange.
She has so much sorrow.
When she came over to our house for the first time...
She fed a stray cat in front of our house.
I think that was what made me fall for her.
She fed the cat and said,
‘This cat has such sad eyes.'
I thought that I wanted to marry her then.
She has a good heart.
You do too, mom.
Mom...
You have a lot of sorrow too.
I made those sad people feel even sadder.
So my heart aches these days.
Taeho...
I'm sorry, mom.
You don't need to feel sorry.
I'm sorry. You're going through a lot right now.
I'm sorry. I guess I've made things harder on you.
No, it's not because I'm having a hard time.
There was so much that I didn't know.
I was so indifferent to how other people felt.
My eldest son...
I'm so proud of you.
You're so trustworthy.
Taeho...
Honey, your daughter Jeongim is now a singer.
If you were alive, you'd have seen her on TV.
You would've been pleased, right?
Jeongim has achieved what you couldn't.
I'm so proud of her.
I'm sorry I'm late, dad.
It's okay. I'm glad you came.
Honey, our daughter is here.
The singer, Nam Jeongim.
It's late. Go home.
It's not late.
I'll finish up before I go.
I can clean up. Go home.
I'm not busy. I finished work.
I said go.
Geez, dad...
Now you're upsetting me.
I was going to sleep over tonight.
Really? You seem so busy lately.
I'm sorry, dad. I haven't been able to visit often.
Don't feel bad. It's good that you're keeping busy.
Are you upset with me lately?
About what?
I don't know...
I'm not upset with you.
I'm really happy.
Dad, I feel weird these days.
I've achieved my dreams.
I'm doing what I wanted to do.
But why do I feel so empty?
You wouldn't feel so empty if your mom was still alive.
That's not it, dad.
I can't say anything without you speaking that way.
I don't even remember her face.
You treat me better than 10 mothers put together.
I feel sad whatever you do.
Even when things go well, I feel sorry that you don't have a mother.
Don't feel sorry for me.
I feel more sorry for you, dad.
Dad, I've received as much motherly love as I needed.
You and Taeho's mother are both like moms to me.
I've received so much love.
I feel really sorry towards Taeho's mother.
I've done her wrong.
I always think of her on days like this.
You don't call her?
No.
What about Taeho?
No.
Gangho
Why won't Yeonho answer?
What?
Where are you?
What is it?
Why didn't you pick up?
Do you know what's going on?
What is it?
When are you getting married?
What are you talking about?
Wedding... No, when's the engagement?
I'm not getting married.
How can you say that right now?
Mom has postponed surgery to see you get engaged.
How can you say that?
What? What did you say?
What surgery?
Gangho! Kim Gangho!
What did you just say?
Gangho, what did you say?
Is mother having an operation?
What?
Mom...
What's the matter?
What is it, Yeonho?
Why do you always have to make me a bad daughter?
Do you hate me that much?
My wedding's not that important.
Is it so important that you have to change the operation date?
Let's go inside and talk.
Go and have surgery right now.
Promise me that you will go and have it tomorrow, okay?
Okay. I'll do that.
Promise me. Go as soon as you wake up.
Okay, I will.
Mom, you're such a fool.
Why are you so foolish?
Oh, no...
I'm sorry, Yeonho.
What will we do?
Goodness... my daughter....
Yeonho.
Mom...
Don't be like this.
Mom....
Yeonho, don't.
It's nothing serious.
Mom... What will we do?
Are you asleep?
I'm sleeping.
How can you answer me if you're asleep?
I'm asleep.
I'm going to the hospital tomorrow.
I said I'm going.
I made an appointment.
Okay.
Are you mad?
I'm not.
Why are you mad?
You're so sour.
When did I act like that?
Let's go to bed early so we can go to the hospital tomorrow.
What are you doing for Christmas?
Christmas?
We have time until your album's released. Want to take a trip?
What?
Why are you so shocked?
Our company employees are going to Japan. Come with us.
You shocked me.
Why? Did you think I wanted us to go away alone?
That's how it sounded.
You wouldn't like it if I asked?
Of course I wouldn't.
Why?
The girls who like you will probably stab me.
They'll probably throw 10 trays of eggs this time.
Don't make jokes like that to me.
Find the right woman.
It offends me.
Why does it offend you?
What if I'm not joking?
Stop it. That's gross.
I don't like men like you.
Sorry. That was a little harsh.
Anyway, you're not my type.
You feel like my younger brother-in-law.
Then what kind of men do you like?
I don't know.
I need to think about it.
Men like Kim Taeho?
I don't like you much either.
Don't worry.
I won't ask you to go alone.
But I'm so offended.
Let's go and have lunch.
Here you are. Wait a minute.
Is this one free? Thank you.
You'll become really pretty if you eat rice cakes.
We'll come back next time.
Sure, come back. You'll become pretty!
Taeho. How have you been?
What is it?
Let's get some soju.
Soju? No, I'm busy.
Why are you busy? You're not working.
Let's go drink.
It's so nice having you not go to work.
I was so lonely without my drinking buddy.
Taeho, you're my best friend.
Are you teasing me for not working?
Of course not. We're friends.
I was worried that you'd be in your room feeling depressed.
You should be thankful that I worried about you.
Are you thankful? Then buy a drink.
My wife's coming. Let's close up and go before she comes.
I'm not drinking. I have to go home.
What's waiting for you at home?
You don't even have a wife.
Something's up at home.
Really? What is it?
You don't need to know.
You're the biggest problem that your family has.
Yes. You're right.
Let's go and get a drink.
Don't make excuses because you don't want to treat me.
Let's go. Come on, go.
Hello.
Yes, hello.
It's been a while.
Yes...
Let's go.
See you again then.
Taeho!
Can we talk for a little while?
Thanks for dropping me off. See you tomorrow.
Yes, see you.
Sit down.
I feel awkward.
Why? It's not like we're strangers.
I'm so honored getting invited to a famous singer's home.
You're twisted now that you're not working... Joking around...
Want some tea?
It's all right.
I heard that you got suspended for 3 months.
Rumors get around so fast.
It's okay. It's winter vacation anyway.
I'll study and travel instead.
You're so full of it.
That's all I have.
Did you call me because you're worried about me?
Don't worry. I don't have any regrets.
I've enjoyed my time on TV.
I was getting lazy at school.
I love having this free time.
Don't worry about me.
Aren't you cold wearing a tracksuit?
It's polar fleece inside.
I'm not cold.
It reminds me of those days when I was unemployed.
How are your parents?
They're good.
Are they all feeling well?
Sure.
Want some tea?
No, it's okay.
I have to go home. There's something I have to attend to.
Is something up at home?
It's nothing.
Jeongim... You look really happy these days.
Don't say that.
I mean it.
You seem confident and energetic.
I didn't know that side of you when you were my wife.
It's a little late, but congratulations. I mean it.
Thanks.
Me too.
You've really made me wake up to myself now.
I know life's not easy now.
I'm studying hard.
It's like I'm back in graduate school.
This is harder than getting a doctorate.
I'm going. Take care.
Yeonho, I'm in the hospital.
Don't worry.
I'm going home as soon as I have the operation.
Don't worry and just focus on teaching. Bye.
Yes, Gangho. I'm in the hospital.
Don't worry and just work hard.
Yes, the operation won't take long.
Don't worry. Make sure that Dahye doesn't come here.
She shouldn't come here when she's pregnant.
Okay. I'll call you afterwards.
Don't worry, work hard. Bye.
It's nice being ill.
I'm so lucky, having everyone worry about me.
The doctor will be here soon.
Lie down and rest.
Yes. Let's rest.
What are you doing over there?
Come and sit down over here.
Thank you, goodbye.
Hey!
Is business going well?
Of course.
I'm so happy lately. I could end up becoming a rice cake millionaire.
Wow, congratulations.
Do you want to try this?
I thought up a new recipe.
The orders are flooding in for this.
People from Marado are calling to order this.
I mean it. Try it, it's good.
Did you have your mom's ceremony?
Yes.
My mom wants me to thank you for the delicious rice cakes.
I mean it.
Did you hear the news?
About what?
Talking about your mom reminded me.
I met your aunt at the supermarket earlier.
Aunt?
I mean Taeho's aunt.
What about her?
She said that Taeho's mother is ill.
She said it's cancer.
She's supposed to have an operation. I don't know if she's had it.
I meant to tell you, but I forgot.
You mean it?
Yes.
Go home...
Both of you, go. I'm not going to die.
Taeho, go and have dinner with your father.
He didn't eat lunch properly.
Please go home.
I said go!
Take me inside.
Mom!